you have only
taking a picture
and looking at the
image and staring
in the mirror and
looking at your
you don’t get to see
the way your eyes
light up when you talk
and you can never
see how beautiful
you look when you
it’s really is kinda
sad that never
actually seen yourself
but I can promise you
I will be here everyday
to tell you what i seeR’J
- Posted:16 minutes ago
Unaired pilot Sherlock is like the punk rock tight jeans wearing alter ego who listens to alternative rock music from the 90s… just look at the artwork on the wall, though.
this is totally what sherlock was like in college.
- Posted:2 hours ago
I’ve begun silently fighting back against jerks on the subway who sit as spread out as possible. Basically I match your stance.
This guy was sitting on the train with his knees splayed and his hands on the seat to either side of him. So I slowly backed up into the seat next to him forcing him to either move his hand or have me sit on it. Then I spread my knees equally wide and stuck my elbows out just as far.
It’s amazing how uncomfortable this makes men.
Eventually he closed his knees more (so I closed mine.) The ladies across from me noticed this silent warfare and were slightly confused. When he finally got off the train and I sat like a “lady” they realized what I did and grinned at me.
Yep. This is my new thing to do on the subway.
ur a little rebel i like u
You know why most guys sit like that?
It’s a body language signal known as a “crotch display” and it’s used to show dominance/confidence.
This is why guys get uncomfortable when women do this, and also why women are told to sit “like a lady” - basically, without the crotch display. When women do it, they’re telling all the dudes that they’re either stronger or on equal standing with them.
So I say right on, ladies! Go for it.
WE DO NOT SIT WITH OUT LEGS SPREAD BECAUSE WE WANT TO ‘SEXUALLY DOMINATE THE SCENE’ OR WHATEVER BULLCRAP YOU WANT TO COME UP WITH.
WE SIT LIKE THAT BECAUSE WE HAVE TESTICLES IN THE MIDDLE THAT ARE FUCKING SENSITIVE TO HEAT AND PRESSURE, MAKING IT MORE COMFORTABLE TO SPREAD OUR LEGS.
WE CLOSE OURS WHEN YOU ‘IMITATE’ US BECAUSE WE REALISE YOU WANT MORE SPACE AND SO WE BE POLITE AND GIVE IT TO YOU
WE SIT LIKE THIS ANYWHERE
HOW ARE WE OPRESSING YOU WHEN WE SIT LIKE THIS ON OUR OWN, IN PRIVATE?
NOT EVERYTHING IS THE GODDAMN PATRIARCHY
^ That is true. We have stuff between our legs. Testicles are outside the body and are very delicate things. It’s uncomfortable and potentially very dangerous for them to be squashed up. Testicular cancer can even be caused by it. It’s both a comfort and health thing to have our legs spread more than women.
We can limit the spread to be more accommodating, sure, but it’s not going to be as comfortable for men to do it completely as it is for women, especially for extended periods of time.
Putting hands out on seats beside you and spreading your elbows out wide is something you can fairly complain about in a public setting. Men having their legs spread more than women is not.
having your hands on other seats,or putting your bag up and not moving it is one thing. i can only speak from personal experience, but sitting with my legs a bit open is just a habit of comfort. however, if other people get on the bus/train i always make sure to move over appropriately that someone can comfortably sit properly there. if someone refuses to adjust to allow other people their proper space, thats when it becomes a problem. so i hope this isnt taken negatively, but unless it is intentional, and they dont move to give you room, its just habit of comfort.
- Posted:4 hours ago